Is it me or is Chris brown and Usher making men feel insecure??

This is just a rant. Honestly, Chris brown coming out with these girls aint loyal, Usher singing i don't mind. and even Omarion with Chris brown and Jhene aioko (however her name is spelled). The lyrics are so mean and down grading. Talking about women going off with other men even though they have a relationship. Like women don't have a conscious, they're just trying to aim for the next man that can do better. No wonder I'm seeing all these guys talking about "I don't trust" and "i'm doing me" or asking 50 questions the moment they see their partner on the phone, or walking through the door. The music industry got us in our feelings, not trusting people and doing mission impossible missions to see what our partner is doing.  The reason I'm speaking about Usher and Chris brown is because, they are the most followed musicians no matter who you listen to you're gonna listen to Chris brown and the other singers, in that genre that follow, for a few moments and then BOOM  "I wonder if my girl is considering stripping?"" I wonder if she is gonna go out and look for a  rich man? hmmm."  Girl singers are doing the same thing for the female side. i just can't believe there is so much disrespect in these songs. I cant play these songs around my kids, and they make me want to stay single.  Im glad I have changed my music to neon-soul, oldies but goodies, swing and other genre music. Like Dwele, Musiq soul child, John B, Erykah Baduh, Esperanza Spalding, NEXT, Kings of leon, Keane, Interpol,Incubus, My list can go on. Basically music that you can pick up your partner dance with them and look at them in the face and say " We going all the way forever" Music is suppose to  keep your head in the right place all the time, your heart healthy and mind positive.Yeah.. i think we need to change the station.

Do you appreciate your life or the little things

 

Everybody loves cuddles from the biggest gangster to the smallest child. 
We get so much love when we are children. 
Years pass, the love changes, it's not unconditional from everyone any more. 
Conditions come with the amount of love and support. 
You make friends, they will grow to love you, but not give you as much affection as when you were a child. 
You meet someone who wants to be with you, close to you, be your friend, become your lover. 
Time for hugs, comfort and beautiful moments. 
You are loved again, not that your family or friends ever fell out of love with you. 
It's just different now, you are supposed to be starting your own family. 
Somebody to share food with... Even though you hate sharing food because you are hungry lol. 
Another soul to exchange stories with, company that can't be rival by any other. 
Seek Out love, even though you have been hurt, you know that you don't want to be single. 
We all want and need affection, not merely sexual encounters. 
Sex is cool but everything else that should come with it, makes up the love of life itself. 
The late nights curled up together... Complaining that your partner is freezing but they only went to the toilet and you were happy, that they put their cold feet on your legs, because you are excited to be with someone special. 
You are back in each other's arms. 
The embrace comes with a reassuring kiss. 
Everything will be alright now. 
Pulling you closer, holding you tighter, hoping to never let go. 
You don't want them to go, you can't wait for the day to end so you can start cuddling again.